Match Making Apart from Ashtakoot Milan And Mangal Dosha

Many times it is seen that in spite of Ashtakoot Milan and absence of Mangal Dosha in the horoscopes of the husband and wife they do not feel compatible for each other. Everything seems good, but, they just do not fit for each other’s aspirations.
Actually, to match two horoscopes for marriage, apart from Ashtakoot Milan and Mangal Dosha, we have to focus on the following four cornerstones of the concerned horoscopes.
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Ascendant: It shows the existential aspects of the lives of the partners. For example, whether they would be financially helpful to each other or not, whether they would appreciate each other’s families or not, etc.
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Sun: It shows the philosophical aspects of the lives of the partners. For example, one may like to earn money by hook or by crook and the other may be ethical in making money.
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Moon: It shows the emotional aspects of the lives of the partners. One may be too much emotional and the other may be restrained.
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Venus: It shows the sexual aspects of the lives of the partners.
If we say that there is ‘3-11’ relationship between the ascendants of the partners, it means if we count from one partner’s ascendant the second partner’s ascendant would either fall in the 3rd or 11th house.
The relations between these cornerstones can be of the following types –
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‘1-1’ Relation: It show perfect homogeneity.
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‘7-7’ Relation: It shows opposition yet fascinated attachment.
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‘3-11’ Relation: It shows secret support.
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‘5-9’ Relation: It shows active support.
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‘2-12’ Relation: It shows secret animosity.
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‘6-8’ Relation: It shows open animosity.
Based on the matching of these cornerstones we can find the actual area of mismatch and can suggest certain astrological remedies to either completely ward off the untoward consequences or to at least assuage them.